New and good:
1. I started reading The Better Life Book: Lessons Learned on the Road from Rags to Riches by Rosemary Francis.
2. I listened to ideas about raising responsible children from Denis Waitly. These ideas are the same ideas I have held for a long time since I was very young but had not formulated into words.
He says that dependent children inevitably become dependent parents. The more parents do for their children, the less children will so for themselves.
Growing up, I felt that I was inferior to my parents and extended family who had grown up with fewer comforts as I experienced in Canada. I often faced complaints about me (and my sister) that life was hard back in China but we had it really good in Canada.
How was I supposed to respond to such comments? Well, the way I took it was that I didn't deserve such comforts. That I did not earn the right to enjoy TV or eat the food that I did.
I am only able to put these thoughts into words now, and it feels very liberating! I no longer need to carry around these invisible burdens of thought.
Anyway, the ideas that Denis Waitly shared resonated deeply with how I want my children to be raised. I want to empower them with taking personal responsibility for their own happiness, their own financial success and their contribution to the world.
3. I released a pebble from my sandal as I was walking to the train station this morning. I saw it as a message from the Universe to release the things that are uncomfortable in your path, then continue walking in comfort.
So, I am more aware in all areas of my life where I may have a pebble lodged in my shoe. What can I halt for a whole, release the pebble, then continue walking toward my destination?
Interesting and ridiculous:
On Saturday after my daughter's swim lesson, I brought her to Almost perfect giving her permission to purchase something for up to a dollar.
Prior to getting into the store as well as during our browse between the aisles, I said to her that she can choose to keep her one dollar and bak it or she can spend it right away. She chose the latter.
She still had some difficulty understanding the concept of money. So I am glad I have the opportunity to go with her to the different products that she was interested in and telling her how much they were.
There was one snack for 15 cents a pack, so I told her that she could get 6 for her dollar. Anything under one dollar I pointed out to her. She eventually chose a candy necklace.
Well, there were also Mackies from Scotland chips 150 grams for 79 cents. So, I had identified myself as "I don't eat chips," yet the marketing win over - some part of me allowed it.
The sign said it was originally $4.99 a bag. The bag said it was GMO free, no additives, etc. so I was curious even despite my self generalization that I did not eat chips.
I grabbed a bag and purchased it.
Well, I still have some. It was not delicious by any means. Actually, I was quite disappointed with the taste.
What is very interesting is even though the chips taste kinda yuck, I still ate them!
Why???
It was as if I didn't believe my senses... I had to find the area of the bag where waited the tasty chips. At be if I continued eating I would taste the good ones.
I then out them away. It was ridiculous.
Want to know what isomer ridiculous? I ate some yesterday as well as today!
They still don't taste good, but I think I will finish them so not to "waste" them.
Alas, I am looking forward to blogging about my decision making strategy for spending money, time and energy.
Thanks for reading. Happy CHOOSEday!